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Overcomers: A Support Group for Men
This is our free open online group, and new members can join at anytime. Most members are current or former clients from one of our process or therapy programs, but many are simply seeking support and group wisdom for everyday challenges. This group if for men who are trapped in habitual porn use or other related issues in their marriage fidelity. To contact Dr. Chuck directly at Support@connectcounselor.com for a video link. This group is offered online, every Saturday at 10:00 am EST
Coaching & Counseling for Men:
Confessing that you have a problem with porn is not easy. You will fear judgment, embarrassment, and have to lower your learned male image defenses. however, as any of out clients will tell you, once you establish that you want to kick this habit and begin the process in earnest, you will be glad you did. You know you can't do this alone, because that has never worked before. If it had, you would not be searching out this website, or read the content.
We will carefully explain how our programs works, and what you will discover about our addiction, as well as what we will ask you to do. Our System will help you develop deep understanding and new skills:
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Victim Empathy to understand and respond to the hurt you have caused to your spouse, to yourself, and to your relationship.
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Confrontation Tolerance to stop your defensiveness, accept your wife's need to confront you, and accept help.
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How to master the triggers you have developed that drive your addiction.
You will immediately begin to rewire your brain so that porn loses it’s hold on you. Your hero's journey will be difficult. However, our process is very powerful, and you will begin to master the challenges see and renew hope almost immediately. Most of all, you won't be alone.
Programs Options include:
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The Renewed Mind Self-Study Pack, ($299 One Time purchase)
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The Renewed Mind Guided Study & Coaching Groups Program, ($69 Monthly subscription)
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The Covenant Men Weekly Process & Therapy Group Program, ($149 Monthly subscription)
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Individual Counseling is Available as well as coaching a la carte or for maximum savings in monthly service packs for discounts as much as 32% off.
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Women's Support Group
Cheating in a marriage is no longer limited to affairs, late night rendezvous, or sleazy motels. It can now happen right in your own home-while you sleep! The rising phenomenon of internet pornography has begun to destroy marriages and relationships across the US.
When you discover your mate is secretly using porn, it can be devastating. The first instinct is anger, then self-doubt, then grief and fear.
Two primary factors are effected by this discovery, Trust and Love Throughout the process of dealing with this very painful discovery, you will experience mixed feelings. At times your feelings of love will battle with contempt. Your mind is trying to sort out the conflict between your desire to see him through the filter of love, and the reality of his actions, excuses, and attitudes. Trust is likewise attacked as fear of future lies, relapse, and doubt surge into your thoughts.
Sorting these feelings out, and finding a way forward, is actually the process of Grief. Our women's group is designed to help you negotiate your feelings, grief, and find your own answers to re-balance your life.
The Women's Support group is available free of cost to the spouse or partner of any man currently doing recovery work with us. To sign up for group, or to ask questions, please contact Dr. Chuck at Support@connectcounselor.com
Betrayal Trauma Requires Healing
Join Broken by Betrayal with Dr Chuck and Take the Journey that will Heal Your Heart!
As a Betrayed Spouse, you have many conflicted feelings and thoughts. Waiting for him to heal will not fix these for you. You need to take your own journey of recovery.
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The pain of betrayal causes you to place the future of your relationship on hold while you wait for proof he has changed.
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Resisting his blame-shifting messages and how to keep the impacts of his addiction focused on his ownership of the problem.
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Accepting it is not about how you look, performance, or age. It's him.
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Use healthy confrontation to safeguard your relationship.
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Understand his cycle to support his recovery without giving up your own emotional safety, dignity, or rights.
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Knowing that you must become OK, even if he never does.
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Recognizing that you cannot ever "know" if you are safe but can chose to be safe.
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Know the difference between full disclosure and unhealthy phobic fear.
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Deal with ever-present threat of triggers that can lead to bitterness when anger and grief attach to one another.
This master class covers 16 topics through over one full year, allowing members to fully process the content through a system of introspective reading, videos, exercises, weekly discussions,journaling and 16 live process groups with Dr Chuck. This complete and structured recovery system to address a most complex issue with a simple to follow system that takes the members from brokenness to healing.